19 May 2013


Woody Allen said "Eighty percent of success is just showing up." Wise words, my man! Especially in terms of a photoshoot. But what about the other twenty percent??

Being photographed can be nerve wracking! But truthfully, it can also be a blast - especially when you walk into the studio feeling confident and prepared. It's the same with that work presentation: it will go great when you believe it will go great. 

So here we go - My Top Ten Tips!
1. Do your research 
By this I mean look around a little bit at who is out there. The most important thing is to find a photographer whose style and personality you click with! Hiring a photographer is an investment, so you want to make sure that you are happy every step of the way.

The right photographer will be able to give you a picture of what you day will entail, what to bring and what your experience will be like working together.

2. Book a consultation
 Every photographer worth their salt wants to have a consultation with you. They want to meet you, answer all your questions, and make sure you feel comfortable with them.

 Personally I want to buy you coffee (or tea!) and hear about what you want to get from a photo session!

3. Ask questions! 
Certainly ask as many of your questions as possible before hiring a photographer.
But what if questions come up between the time you book and the date of your session? What if you have a question in the middle of getting your makeup done? Don't be afraid to ask.

A great photographer should be able to answer most of your questions about a session before you even ask them - but if they don't you should always make sure to ask. And a good photographer will always be happy to answer!

4. Go shopping 
Did I hear you just exclaim with glee? You don't have to go all out and buy a new wardrobe. You can go shopping in your own closet. Break out that dress or the neglige that you've been saving to wear for a special occasion. This is that special occasion!

Make sure you have at least five complete outfits that you love and feel like a goddess in. Don't bring that shirt that almost fits you if you sit just-right and don't breathe. (I have that shirt too - who knows why it's still in my closet...but it is.) And don't bring that threadbare t-shirt that you love. I have that too, but I promise you the camera will never love it like you do.

If you're booking a double shoot with your best girlfriend, mom or daughter this is a perfect occasion to go shopping together! Who knows, you may find your new signature look on this trip!

5. Get plenty of rest
If only, I know! Sometimes it feels like life is go-go-go and that rest is elusive. But as much as possible, especially for about a week leading up to your shoot, try to set aside a little time for yourself. Decompress, make tea, take a walk and cuddle your pet. Take a freakin' bubble bath (oh that sounds so nice right now!)

When we're tired and stressed out, it shows up in our face. We breakout, we get dark circles, sometimes we have a harder time smiling. If we are just totally worn out, it can be hard to feel confident and stand up straight.
Doing a photoshoot is about loving and celebrating yourself. So do a little pre-gaming by loving yourself and giving yourself some time to unwind!

6. Drink all the water!
Dear ol' George Carlin (may he rest in peace) would make fun of me for this, but I really do suggest that you carry around your own portable water. When you have it, you are more likely to drink it.
The more hydrated you are, the more refreshed you will feel.

 If all I've had to drink by the end of the day are my morning cups of coffee, I feel it! So drink up! Your skin, especially, will thank you.

7. Hire a professional hair and makeup artist 
Not every photography studio has their own hair and makeup artist. If they don't, it might be your responsibility to find someone. Believe me, it is worth the investment of time and money! Plus it will make you feel extra pampered, fabulous and confident.

If you can, schedule your hair and makeup appointment as close to your photoshoot time as possible. The best scenario is to have the makeup artist in the studio, and there for the entire shoot so that they can do touch ups or change the look for different shots. Again, totally worth the investment!

When you work with me, hair and makeup is included in your photoshoot and in your first consultation we discuss what you're looking for with hair and makeup. We even create an entire Pinterest board dedicated to the look of your shoot so that the makeup artist is 100% on the same page!
If you can arrange something like this, I highly recommend it so that there is clear communication about how you want to look on the day of your shoot.

8. Have an idea of the poses you want to try
A great photographer will coach you with your posing. But not everyone does. So it's important that you come in with a few solid ideas of how you want to try posing. This will make you feel a little more prepared, so that you won't panic when you're suddenly staring into a camera lens!

Posing is an art, and again I stress that a really great photographer will help you with your posing. But if that isn't their forte, I have an article here that will give you some tips on how to pose!

9. Smile!
Ok, you don't really have to smile if that's not the look you're going for. At least not with your mouth, showing off your pearly whites. But I do recommend trying to smile with your eyes. What I'm talking about it letting that inner glow, and your personality shine through your eyes.

 It's an intensity and connection with the camera that Tyra calls "smeyes."This is going to make a huge difference between photos that feel flat, and photos that feel vibrant and full of life!

10. Enjoy yourself
Not only do I mean have fun on your photoshoot, because your session should be a blast, but I also mean that you should enjoy you! By this I mean you should give yourself a little love! When you're in front of the camera, let yourself feel good about yourself! Enjoy that you've been pampered and you're playing model for a day!

In the day to day grind, we often forget to love yourself. Our rhetoric is often a very harsh tape that we play over and over in our minds. So while you're in front of the camera (and after!) take that tape out. Pop in one that says "Girl, you are ah-mazing!"

Don't think about hating your nose, your arms, your thighs. Give each part of yourself a little love - but most importantly love yourself as an amazing whole! That will shine through all of your photos. And it will give you a little bounce in your step for the rest of the week. In fact, don't wait for your photoshoot to practice a little self-love.



Why not make that Tip #1 for each and every day??

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11 May 2013

This week I was super lucky to get Nakeyah into the studio for a modeling portfolio. We had worked together for a mini session last autumn when she was just getting started modeling. So it was great to have a chance to reconnect and work together again!
Because Nakeyah is still getting her feet wet in the industry, this photoshoot was a really awesome chance for me to work on coaching a client in front of the camera. She and our makeup artist, Rachael, and I were joking that the poses are a little bit like modeling yoga. Sometimes you just feel silly. And that's ok!!

We definitely had our moments where we were all trying to stop giggling. But at the end of the day I think we got some really gorgeous shots! I love how Nakeyah connects with the camera. It's like bam!!!
Also, she brought some killer shoes to the session. Gotta love that!

My favorite thing about this session is that we were able to capture some awesome range. There's some really sexy, gritty looking shots as well as some softer, romantic ones as well!

Such a fun session!

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03 May 2013

This has been a tough week. I recently lost a childhood friend and "big sister" to breast cancer. She was diagnosed, and less than a month later she was gone and left behind four beautiful children and a loving husband.  A lot of people in my community have been left reeling. The loss has been especially distressing for my mother as she's fighting her own battle with breast cancer.

I've cried a lot in the past week. There's definitely a part of the loss that makes me scared, and makes me want to run away. But once I wipe away the tears, I find myself ready to fight.

So today, instead of focusing on pain and loss, I want to talk about the fighters.

Right now my friend Kat is travelling down to Washington DC to participate in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. This will be her third year walking, and every year I try to support her efforts - either with a gift certificate for a photo session that she can raffle off or a donation to her walking efforts. This year is no different and I just want to put the good word out there for a woman that I respect to pieces, who is out there in the field fighting!


I encourage everyone to become involved, even if it's in a small way. Donate your services in some way to support cancer patients and survivors. Get involved with organizations that support cancer research. Call your mom, your sister, or your aunts. Not out of a place of fear of the unknown, but out of love for the blessing of each day!

If you'd like get involved by donating to Kat, click here.

Have a wonderful weekend and live lovingly!

26 April 2013

So Dove has done it again and released a video that has gone viral in its Real Beauty campaign. It has spoken to a lot of women; even I got a little teary the first time as I was swept up in the music and the message. They end with a question, asking us to consider how we see ourselves. The message is that we're much more beautiful than we think we are.

Both criticism and accolades have been given to Dove for their newest ad. Some people say that its focus on beauty is flawed as it still enforces the importance of physical appearance. Others have been moved by the message.

We live in a culture where it is almost impossible to get away from an idealized form of beauty being dictated to us. Dove's parent company is a prime culprit as they send mixed messages with their various brands. With one they try to elevate women and disassemble skewed beauty concepts, but then reinforce those same skewed concepts with their other brands like Axe.



Therein lies the real issue, for me, with Dove. And I talked about this at length in a previous blog post. It's a one step forward, one step back kind of dance.

One of my heros, Sue Bryce says "Women believe they need to be transformed in order to love themselves." Brands like Unilever perpetrating "idealized" images of women like in the above picture is one of the many reasons we feel that way.

We all want to be beautiful because we are told it is important. What if we could all just reinforce that idea that we are enough. Right now. True self-love then begins to radiate out - and that is the most beautiful thing about a human being. And that's what I love about Sue Bryce's work. Her whole ideal is that you are beautiful enough - right now! Check out her Before & After gallery to see what I mean.

If you haven't already seen it, take a few minute to watch the Dove "Real Beauty Sketches" and let me know what you think:



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19 April 2013

So the other morning I was checking my email while having my morning cup of coffee and I got a lovely surprise!

Trevillion, one of the image libraries that I work with, had sent me a note letting me know that one of my images had sold as a book cover.

With a little bit of internet sleuthing I was able to discover it was an Italian edition of Judith Kinghorn's book "The Last Summer." So exciting! While the image of the mansion isn't mine, the young woman in the lovely diaphanous dress is Samuela, an aspiring model that I got to work with frequently last year.

 This particular shot came from an afternoon at a park called Poet's Walk. It was about 90 degrees out, so it was probably 100+ in that dress. While I think it's a stunning gown, it certainly was not made for a humid Hudson Valley Summer. Despite the heat, I'm so glad we spent that sweltering summer afternoon together!

L'Ultima Estate a Deyning Park by Judith Kinghorn

And I totally snagged this photograph off of Judith Kinghorn's twitter feed. Definitely need to order a copy from Italy - it comes out today!!







12 April 2013

So, you've finally booked that shoot with your favorite photographer! You're excited, a little nervous, and you have no idea what to bring. You've got your five favorite outfits picked out and ready to go, but what else should you bring?

While you certainly don't have to be a professional model to have a great experience in a photo shoot, taking a peek inside of a model's bag can go a long way to making you feel more prepared for when you walk into a photographer's studio.

Lots of times a photographer and makeup artist will already be equipped with the essentials for making sure that your photo shoot experience is amazing, but sometimes having a stash of essentials tucked away can give you that extra boost of confidence.

Here's a great list to get ideas flowing on what you might want to bring along next time you've booked a photographer:


one day in my life as a ... bag model -2
Photo by magnovich on Flickr
Beauty Products:When you have a makeup artist on set, some of these items may be unnecessary  But if you have sensitive skin, bringing your own makeup and skin care products can be a great idea!

  • Make-up and mirror 
  • Deodorant
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Hairbrush
  • Hair bands
  • Face wash and moisturizer
Clothing: 
Your photographer will always help you out in terms of wardrobe, but aside from your wardrobe choices, having these items in your bag can be extremely helpful!

  • White, nude, black underwear
  • T-shirt bras (convertible or strapless bra)
  • Flesh-colored body stocking
  • Spare pairs of tights
  • Heels
Accessories:
Once again, all you parents out there probably carry these around anyway. But having these items on the set, especially if you have a longer shoot planned, will always go a long way to making the day go smoothly!
  • Safety pins
  • Healthy Snacks
  • Mints
  • Water
  • Wet wipes
  • Your favorite music



07 April 2013

Recently my sister came up from NYC for a visit. She's a crazy-talented makeup artist and has been working really hard over in the wig and makeup department at Julliard this past year. This summer she's planning on going out to work with the Santa Fe Opera (and I'm going to miss her like crazy!). While she's been wrapping up with Julliard, she's also been putting the final touches on her portfolio and website.

With all of this going on, it was decided that she really needed some professional headshots to add to her website while she was up for a visit.


The Before

After we got a slew of really beautiful shots, the sun went behind a cloud and it rained. So we decided it was time for a cup of tea and to relax.

Truth be told, I think that it was really difficult for us to be on our respective side of the lens. She and I both inherited our mother's extreme dislike of being in photographs. When I was a child, I found that our mom had taken a blue ball-point pen and had tried to do some manual retouching by "editing out" parts of her body that she didn't like. While I wasn't more than 10 years old, on some level I knew that there was a profound sadness in that act. It broke my heart, because I thought that my mother was beautiful. I wished then, just as I wish now, that she had a love of herself that could show her her own beauty.
Now, after having undergone several surgeries and rounds of treatment for cancer, she looks back on those photos and shakes her head. She had no idea of her own beauty - and I know that she struggles to see it now.

As women, my sister and I have inherited that struggle to see our beauty on a daily basis. It's difficult to see and accept it, even when it's staring out at us from a photograph. So my goal during our photoshoot was to help my sister take a small step towards overcoming our shared struggle. I wanted to show her how much I loved her and how beautiful she was to me.

She and I ended up choosing the same favorites, and I'm super grateful that she let me share the photos here! The fact that I was able to take photographs of my sister that resonated with her and that made her feel beautiful was the greatest gift in the world to me.

I could wax long on that subject, and I would get all sniffly and need all kinds of tissues. So all I will say is that this is the essence of what I want to give to all women (and men too!). There is this incredible moment when someone sees a photograph of how beautiful they are - it's not about Photoshop or makeup tricks. It comes down to love and connection and Hot Damn.

That's really what it's all about for me.

One of my favorite natural looks
LOVE the 1920's vibe in this photo
Totally dig the enigmatic expression in this one too.

I'd say that all in all it was a pretty great day!